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"... There is a whole world inside me. If you are not curious about it? You wont get far. I am NOT looking for couples. I am NOT looking for anyone in a relationship already. You only understand yourself and others when you are fully engaged with them in any dynamic. There is more beyond dom or sub. Bdsm and my sexuality is NOT my vice or fetish or virtue. It is a vehicle to travel deeper into myself and my partner. Where there are no masks or pretense, just raw truth. It is more intense beyond what any vice holds. If this doesn’t make sense to you or scares you? It is time to flip the page. I also enjoy museums,music, hiking, travel, and reading. I enjoy studying history, art, politics, finance, literature and the esoteric.I am a bit old fashioned. I have a strong sense of honor, loyalty, and integrity. I have the soul of an intellectual artist. I love questioning the world around me and finding the depths no one thought was there. ..."
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"... It's been eight years since I was last a part of the scene in Chicago. Reasons are simplified to a marriage that didn't work and a career which has kept me pretty busy. That said, now that life has somewhat settled, I find myself yearning to re-explore subspace with a Domme willing to retrain and help take those voyages with fresh eyes. In return, I pledge a partnership that is drama free, isn't all about "me me me" and, as much as I yearn for the release inherent with the joys of pain and pleasure, a promise never to top from the bottom. I think that's the correct term- I'm rusty. My only boundaries are breath and knife play. Everything else is only bordered by your imagination. As for who I am, the basics are investigative writer, lover of the arts and unapologetic nerd (author of angry dissertations on how Dr. Who has been wrecked by a clueless show-runner and why the ending of BSG remains a slap in the face). Speaking of, I am a pain-slut at least as defined by Urban Dictionary and Russian/Czech BDSM videos). As for the rest, no spoilers, feel free to find out for yourself. I am happy to entertain a dialogue with folks out of the area but not international. I don't plan on moving countries just yet. Only three quid pro quos: First, it may be a waste of perfectly good font, but no men. Second, no trans or cds. Before the angry Twitter mob descends, I am allied to everything you are/want to be. It just doesn't float my sexual boat. Lastly, I am on assignment in Indianapolis until April/May but Chicago is and remains home. But, if there is someone also wandering in the Indiana desert gasping for the broad-minded, then find me. ..."
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"... Professional Domina/Dominatrix, accepting new servants to give me what I want without hesitation in exchange for the very special kind of care and attention I'm able to and willing to provide. I'm a sensual and definitive Domina, with a soft touch when need be, a firm hand when need be, and the ability to adapt to the very special dynamic that is shared between two...I'm naturally voluptuous and my appetite for attention, worship, generous tribute, and complete and absolute obedience make me the Queen of Sensual Cruelty you so desire.... ..."