- Female Domination lifestyle Personals.
MistressJewel, Scalasaig Berkshire
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"... "We tend to think of the erotic as an easy, tantalizing sexual arousal. I speak of the erotic as the deepest life force, a force which moves us toward living in a fundamental way.” - Audre Lorde .... From the moment you are in my presence, your job is a simple one, to ensure your complete time, attention and devotion AND EXCLUSIVITY is given to me and ME alone. My needs must ALWAYS come first..... I am Your Goddess Mistress. Although I dislike categorising greatly, to gauge a sense, I am more a 'soft limit Dom' (as I believe in aftercare), I like to torture and tease for hours, i.e. orally, hands, equipment. I want you to surrender your mind, body and soul to me, to give yourself completely to me, trust me, as you linger on my every word, command and touch, exploration of the senses, psyche with full rein over every darkest corner of your mind! I would like you to be clean and presentable. Height, weight age are of little relevance. that is just the frame, my full attention is on the canvas incarcerated within the confinements of this frame! This world, it's darker urges and desires are much more intense once fantasy is brought into reality! The 'come down' can be extremely emotional, a sense of emptiness, amongst other things. !! It is not for the faint hearted, therefore time wasters need not apply! "Having a soft heart in a cruel world is courage, not weakness!!" -Katherine Henson. However, I can also be cool as ice, so please do not underestimate- fools are not suffered lightly! I began my journey in this world at a young age and am a LIFESTYLE EXTREME Tantra and Erotica FEMME DOMME first and foremost, being a Mistress for 15yrs ... in demand for My expertise, craft and practice, however now want and desire an actual relationship....for life! So should there be a submissive who can catch my eye enough, Mistress is open to the idea of a relationship encompassing D/s & bf/gf. I look forward to hearing from you soon ;) ..."
Sadistichottie18, Scalasaig Berkshire
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"... Straight single Lifestyle'r Seductive Goddess that is Sapiosexual ( One who finds intelligence the sexually most attractive feature ) I have been in the lifestyle now for 15 years this Holiday season. I live alone with no kids in my Castle with playroom and toys... I believe in safety and aftercare. One of my greatest joys is teaching protocol and discipline. A good mind fuck is what I crave and without these things I am not complete. There is always constant growth and learning with both parties.I do believe in aftercare with my sub/slave, whether he is a play partner or a collared submissive/slave. I will guide, protect and mentor you to succeed in achieving your goals and mine. I'll provide a safe, sane and comfortable place for consensual play and treasure your dedication. Before we start training or play we will discuss our erotic scenes so you will have piece of mind. Honest communication builds up trust and respect. I believe in respecting hard limits and a safe word.... My Ideal Person I have been out of the scene for over a year. I met a man and thought I could engage in a vanilla relationship only to get bored out of my mind... That is why I'm back to find you.. I got to realize the reason most vanilla relationships is because a vanilla lifestyle is such a regular one while the BDSM lifestyle adds a lot of sauce either through pleasure or pains depending on the kinks... 1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson. 3. Follow the three Rs: Respect for self Respect for others and Responsibility for all your actions. 4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck. 5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly. 6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship. 7. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. 8. Spend some time alone every day. 9. Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values. 10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer. 11. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time. 12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life. 13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past. 14. Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality. 15. Be gentle with the earth. 16. Once a year, go someplace you've never been before. 17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. 19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon. 20. Follow my lead and you will have no fear... ..."